Top 10 tips for coping with Anxiety

Top Tips for Anxiety


Anxiety is your body’s natural response to stress, a feeling of unease or fear in a specific situation or environment. Everyone has feelings of anxiety at some point, and at different levels depending on the person or event. It’s how we cope and live with anxiety that’s important.

To help you cope with anxiety, we’ve put together our top 10 tips for managing anxiety.


1. Don’t suppress your anxiety

Trying to suppress anxiety or push it away is likely to be counterproductive. Everyone experiences anxiety. It is a normal response to stress. Let it in when it shows up. Practice acceptance. Rather than trying to push it away (which tends to be futile, resulting in feeling more overwhelmed and less in control), make room for anxiety.


2. Breathe

Deep diaphragmatic breathing is a powerful anxiety-reducing technique because it activates the body’s relaxation response. It helps the body go from the fight-or-flight response of the sympathetic nervous system to the relaxed response of the parasympathetic nervous system.


3. Focus on the here and now

Usually when we get anxious our mind is throwing up scenarios in the future, which are unlikely to happen. Instead, pause, breathe and pay attention to what’s happening right now. Even if something serious is happening, focusing on the present moment will improve your ability to manage the situation.


4. Use a brief mindfulness exercise

‘Picture yourself on a river bank or outside in a favourite park, field or beach. Watch leaves pass by on the river or clouds pass by in the sky. Assign your emotions, thoughts and sensations to the clouds and leaves, and just watch them float by.’

This is very different from what people typically do. Typically, we assign emotions, thoughts and physical sensations certain qualities and judgments, such as good or bad, right or wrong. This often amplifies anxiety. Remember that ‘it is all just information’.


5. Limit alcohol and caffeine

Although alcohol may temporarily reduce anxiety, when it wears off there is often a rebound effect, which increases anxiety levels. Self-medicating for anxiety with alcohol in this way also prevents us learning coping skills and can be a shortcut to developing alcohol dependence. Caffeine can cause increased heart rate and other symptoms, which can be interpreted as anxiety.


6. Exercise

Exercise is one of the most effective treatments for anxiety. Movement and anxiety promote blood flow, improve neurotransmitter production and regulation, calm anxiety symptoms and much more. Some people find Tai Chi or yoga particularly effective whereas others prefer a hard workout at the gym or a run.


7. Eat healthily

Many people find changing to a healthy diet improves symptoms of anxiety. High levels of sugar and processed food may increase symptoms whereas getting a good supply of B vitamins and Omega 3 fatty acids may be helpful.


8. Laugh

Laughing produces endorphins and helps us to connect with others. Both of these can switch off our brains threat activation system and promote feelings of safety.


9. Try not to avoid

Try no to avoid situations which cause anxiety, particularly if this limits activities, which would otherwise by life enriching. Avoidance increases our level of anticipatory anxiety over time and prevents us from learning how to cope.


10. Seek professional help

If you have taken all the steps above and made positive lifestyle changes but still find that your anxiety is getting worse seek professional help. There are a number of effective treatments for anxiety disorders, which can help you feel better and engage with life more effectively.